Well...its finalized...

I gave my two week notice today...**sigh**...I'll post more about this later, I just wanted to get it blogged.

HURRY UP and WAIT!!!!!!

Thats what we live by...I was first introduced to this style of living...well, hmmmm probably the day Sev graduated from Basic training.
He and I had become good friends a few months prior to his enlisting in the Army. He was seeing one of my good friends and therefore we managed to spend time with each other before we even knew there was chemistry between us!! I kid him b/c I actually delivered flowers to my friend, his girlfriend at the time, for him...I loved his sense of humor and his sweet smile...but I was on my own path, man! I was headed for WU and the life of a carefree, college student majoring in Art (not to mention I was dating someone) :) Then I got the news that Sevs bestfriend had been killed in a car accident. I called him to see if he was okay and ask if he needed anything. He asked me to attend the funeral with him. It was then that our lives began to change...thinking back now...I dont think either of us realized what was about to happen.
A few weeks later I got a call from Sev saying he had enlisted in the Army and would be shipping off to Basic Training in May.
We met up at a going away party for him and promised to keep in touch...thinking back....we were young (still are), had no idea what life held for us and what exactly we were suppose to do with the world at our feet...looking at pictures he looked so little (not the man I know today)...he was that good ole' country boy that was up for anything and any dare anyone put him up to, he had a constant smile on his face and worked hard for the weekends, hehe. I was learning my limits and testing my boundaries and preparing (as my dad puts it) to jump from the nest and spread my wings!! hehe (gotta love dads analogies!!) I wanted a degree and the whole college experience.
So sev left and I started the Summer of 2003. Half way through his training I finally kept my promise and wrote him a letter...good grief, did that open up a flood gate.....I think I received a letter from him every other day, and a call every sunday when he was allowed minutes for phone calls. We were honestly living in our own little love story (but didnt know it at the time). He would write about training days, the heat, and the crappy food. I would write about swimming in the summer sun, fights with my current boyfriend, rumors and gossip from our small town. I had no clue what the military life was about...and I didnt think much of it, looking back...I realize how naive I was and how naive America is (No offensive, my husband is proudly fighting a war to keep America in our bubble...safe and sound...so that they will never see the things he has.)
Sooo on August 1st 2003 I made a trip to Ft. Benning GA to watch SPC. Mullen graduate from Infantry School.



We arrived at the field they had set up for the Units Graduation. It was humid, I had forgotten my sunglasses and it was sprinkling on and off. I met Sevs parents and sat on the sticky bleachers waiting on a sea of green uniforms to march in front of us...blurring together and hard to tell where one soldier ended and another began. Then before we knew it the green men were scattering out and we were allowed to leave our positions on the bleachers and find our Infantryman. Yeah....right....we waited for Sev to find us!!
He did...pictures were taken...congratulations were given...and before we knew it some guy was screaming (very loudly and what I thought unnecessarily) for the men to return to formation!! We were commanded to move off the field and Wait for our Soldiers....so Wait we did....we Hurried off the field...and waited............and waited.............and waited..............we waited 8 hrs!!! We finally left Ft. Benning GA just before midnight on Aug. 1st. I spent my 20th Birthday in a car with Sev singing me Happy Birthday.....WAY off key!!



And that was the day I was first introduced to the phrase: "HURRY UP and WAIT!!"

I'll add more later...I think our story should be recorded...so here is the beginning to our whirlwind story.

Wahooo...I am Now the proud parent...

of a KitchenAid Stand up Mixer... :) :)

I've been wanting a kitchenaid mixer for some time....but I've not been able to bring myself to buy one...I mean...unless youre a baker/chef....why would you spend $550 on a mixer?? So I just window shopped but never bought one....

Well....thanks to the lovely ladies on my Military Board...one of them discovered a Lowe's Mistake!!!! and I JUMPED ON IT!!!! They printed the mixers On Sale for $150...BIG mistake....they HAD to honor their ad. or it could be considered false advertisement...all ads were pulled from the shelf and they deleted it online...but thanks to my lovely job ;-) I did a bit of searching.....and....the rest is history....I will be welcoming my new addition into our home on August 6th!!!

Yipeee....
just a silly little post, but I'm excited!!

Good Grief..Its been Awhile.

Notice the HUGE gap in time!! Thats me...Lindsey the ever procrastinating one!! gotta keep up the tradition, no?! Ha...okay...so really no excuse except...life got to me. Ever had that feeling? Lets see...since my last post over a year ago...I DID ship Ali to Sevs parents...)he is now back with me :) ) Sev deployed August 4th 2006. I moved to SC in a new house we purchased in Columbia (closed on it Aug. 25th). Autumn had her baby, a sweet baby girl (Alexa Lynn Black) on Sept. 22nd 2006. I started a career with The State Newspaper as an account executive. Sev came home for R&R in October. I Spent a few Holidays without my honey...My cousin, Stephanie, told me she was pregnant on the EXACT weekend, a year later, that Autumn told me that she was expecting. Steph married her sweetheart in March. Sev got extended in Iraq. Steph had her sweet baby boy (Perrin Clyde Dale) July 11, 2007. anddd most recently JESSIE got engaged :-)
Wow...lots huh!! Its been a crazy whirlwind. I wish more than anything that I would have kept up w/ this blog site while sev was deployed, I'm contemplating now writting a book about this deployment...and it would have been nice to have tid-bits here and there of this past year....but I do have journals laying around the house with bits and pieces...so I'll paste those together and come up with something....if I ever decide to do that ;-)
Lately, I've been thinking about going back to school...Last night I fell asleep thinking maybeee psychology...hmmmm...I'm not sure...I just know I'm not finished soaking up all the knowledge the world has to offer.

I fly BACK to Hawaii August 23rd...I am sooo excited!! Of course I'll be out there a few weeks before Sev finally gets back...BUT its one step closer :-)

Things are moving right along for us...We're VERY BLESSED!!!

Not much today...

Sev and I leave Thursday for Kaua'i...We need this break soooooooo badly!!! He is burnt out on work and I am on school. We found out yesterday that we have to either ship Ali' to sevs parents or move to a downstairs apartment :( We don't want to do either, but we have until Wednesday to choose one or the other. I'm so upset, I love my dog!! I was pretty upset about the whole issue plus just crappy luck we have been having all together, but im trying out a new positive look on life, im trying to realize that one day of bad luck is so small compared to the whole scheme of things...and we really just need to stay focused on God and each other and we can make it through anything.

That brings me to another thought I've been having...Aud found out she is pregnant, she informed me on this a few weeks ago...I think it hit me pretty hard. I cant believe that we are old enough now to have our own children, I know im married and all...but a baby??!?? Whoa. So im guessing she's due in September sometime, she asked me to be the God mother...of course I said yes, we're not catholic...But we both like the idea of God mothers, as one who helps your child learn about God throughout life.
However, I started thinking about when sev and I TTC. What kind of mom will I be like?? I think my parents did an okay job of raising me...I mean I'm not psycho or anything, LOL. However, I don't want to forget what it was like to be a child...I want to understand my children and be able to give them the best advice while letting them still choose their own paths. I'm so afraid that the older I get the more of this I will forget.

okay...im at work and better get back...more thoughts coming at you later ; )

First Times a charm...

So I'm sitting at work...bored... I pick up a magazine...thumb through it. I start reading "Women who Blog"...I realize...this is what i need, for days when hubby is out being my hero with the United States Army, and not able to lend me his ear.

So heres to blogging and my new blog site!!